A week-by-week first-response plan for safety, children, money, documents and communication.
Use it when: immediately after separation or when you are preparing to separate.
Download the worksheetCurrent legal informationReviewed through July 2026This guide provides general information, not advice about a specific matter.
Use these tools to stabilize the first weeks after separation, identify the decisions that cannot wait and arrive at an initial consultation with the facts organized.
A week-by-week first-response plan for safety, children, money, documents and communication.
Use it when: immediately after separation or when you are preparing to separate.
Download the worksheetSorts urgent decisions, negotiable issues and evidence gaps before process choices are made.
Use it when: when everything feels connected and you need to decide what to address first.
Download the worksheetA document inventory for income, property, debt, business interests and family expenses.
Use it when: before requesting disclosure or preparing for negotiation, mediation or court.
Download the worksheetA form should do more than collect facts. These notes explain the hidden issue each worksheet is intended to surface, using concrete examples rather than a generic list of legal topics.
The first week is when preventable problems tend to compound: an essential payment is missed, a joint balance changes or a temporary parenting pattern starts without a review date. We designed this plan to separate urgent stabilization from decisions that should wait for better information.
For example: The child’s medication and Monday school pickup may need an answer today; a house buyout usually does not. A dated bank-and-mortgage snapshot plus a four-week parenting plan can preserve options without forcing a permanent settlement in the middle of a crisis.
A family file rarely has one problem or one clock. We separate issues by consequence, deadline and missing evidence, then ask which process fits each issue. Negotiation, mediation and court are tools, not all-or-nothing identities for the entire case.
For example: A parenting exchange may need a workable answer before Friday, a joint tax debt may require records to be preserved now, and the home value may safely wait for an appraisal. Mapping those tracks prevents the loudest issue from dictating every other decision.
A large stack of documents can still leave the decisive fact unanswered. We look for continuity across key dates, the source of funds and records that explain unusual transactions—not simply the latest statement for each account.
For example: A current investment statement shows $240,000, but not whether $75,000 came from an inheritance or what happened to those funds after deposit. The gift letter, deposit record and transaction history may matter more than another current balance printout.
Separation begins when you and your spouse start living separate and apart and at least one of you intends to end the relationship. You can be separated while still living under the same roof — but when you are, the evidence establishing your separation date matters more.
Divorce is the court order that legally ends a marriage — and only that. It does not automatically resolve parenting, support or property. Those issues are dealt with separately, by agreement, court order or both, and that work can happen before or after the divorce claim itself.
The federal Divorce Act recognizes marriage breakdown based on one year of separation, adultery, or physical or mental cruelty. Most Alberta divorces proceed on the one-year separation ground. You can start the divorce action before the year is up, but the court cannot grant the divorce on that ground until the full year has passed.
Trying to reconcile does not necessarily reset the clock: attempts totalling no more than 90 days do not restart the one-year separation period. Adultery and cruelty claims are fact-specific and require evidence — and they do not ordinarily change parenting, support or family-property outcomes.
The real work of separation is usually broader than the divorce itself. Decisions made in the first weeks can shape your children's routine, your housing, your cash flow, your taxes and the eventual settlement. A complete plan usually covers:
No single process fits every family. Direct negotiation can work when disclosure is complete and the issues are defined. In mediation, you make the decisions with the help of a neutral facilitator. In arbitration, a decision-maker you both agree on decides the issues that remain. Court may be necessary for urgent protection, disclosure, enforcement, or a binding result where agreement is not realistic.
Before choosing a process, take stock of safety, power imbalance, family violence, urgency and whether reliable disclosure is actually available. And document any negotiated resolution carefully — informal understandings leave important terms uncertain, and sometimes unenforceable.
You should not have to choose between a lawyer who understands settlement and one who can prepare for a contested hearing. Brandi Aymont brings more than 20 years of experience in the Court of King’s Bench, the Alberta Court of Justice, mediation and private arbitration. Heather Fraese combines complex property and support work with her experience as a certified mediator.
For your file, that means every negotiated proposal gets tested against the evidence and the likely legal range. If court or arbitration becomes necessary, preparation stays focused on the issues that matter — without closing the door on practical settlement.
Divorce and family-property proceedings are handled in the Alberta Court of King’s Bench. Other family matters may also proceed under provincial legislation in the Alberta Court of Justice, depending on the claim.
The Court of King’s Bench Family Focused Protocol took effect across Alberta in January 2026. It introduced resolution-oriented intake and pre-court processes for family and divorce proceedings, with current requirements, exclusions and waiver procedures published by the Court. The correct path depends on the relief you are asking for and whether your matter is urgent or excluded.
A divorce is uncontested when no response puts the divorce or related relief in dispute, or when the parties have resolved the issues needed for the requested judgment. Uncontested is not the same as having nothing left to sort out — property claims, in particular, are not resolved merely because the divorce is granted.
Where children are involved, the court must be satisfied that reasonable arrangements have been made for their support. Filing details, service, affidavits and the form of the proposed judgment still matter in a desk-divorce application.
Laws, court procedures and the application of legal tests can change. Obtain advice about the facts, deadlines and documents in your matter.
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