Calgary Family Mediation & Arbitration Lawyers

Our Calgary family mediation and arbitration lawyers help families resolve divorce, parenting, support and property disputes outside conventional court. In mediation, you make the decisions; in arbitration, a decision-maker you both choose settles what remains.

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Client Testimonials

"I can not thank you enough for making this process easier then anticipated. You are genuine and lovely and I appreciate your professionalism and also they way you have eased my fears when I shared them to you."

Calgary family law client of Heather Fraese

I had an outstanding experience working with my lawyer Brandi Aymont. With the assistance of her paralegal Devonna McFarlane, they prepared my cohabitation agreement. They were knowledgeable, professional, and took the time to explain everything clearly, making what could have been a stressful process feel straightforward and comfortable…

Calgary cohabitation agreement client of Brandi Aymont

“I want to thank you. I hired you because you emphasized mediation, and I kept on hiring you in the face of one of my brothers and one of my friends insisting I hire a "bulldog" to counter (my ex’s) "bulldog." I'm glad I ignored their advice.”

Calgary family law mediation client of Heather Fraese

Brandi took very good care of me all the way through the whole process. She is extremely knowledgeable in her field and made every effort to make sure my son was taken care of and we got a fair deal. I have recommended her to several friends and will continue to recommend her.

Calgary family law client of Brandi Aymont

I can't say enough wonderful things about the team at Fraese Aymont Family Lawyers. Over the years, Brandi, along with her staff and associates, has provided exceptional support, guidance, and professionalism. Their knowledge, compassion, and dedication have made a real difference during challenging times…

Calgary family law client of Brandi Aymont

Brandi was very thorough and professional. I felt she did everything she could for my case and was very sympathetic to my issues and very happy with the results.

Calgary family law client of Brandi Aymont

"The child support calculator provided on line through this firm is awesome. We have a long standing support agreement and we use this annually to update the child support amounts based on our T4's. Thank you for providing this great tool online which allows you lawyers to focus on cases that really require your help rather than simple accounting annually for us folks long through the process."

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Family Mediation and Arbitration in Calgary

Current legal informationReviewed through July 2026This guide provides general information, not advice about a specific matter.

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Get organized before your consultation

These worksheets help you arrive at mediation with organized facts, usable options and a clear understanding of what still prevents informed settlement.

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Family Mediation Preparation Workbook

Moves from positions to interests, options, evidence and a realistic agenda.

Use it when: in the two weeks before mediation and update it as disclosure arrives.

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Mediation Disclosure Readiness Gate

A go, conditional-go or pause test for whether financial mediation can produce an informed result.

Use it when: before booking a final settlement session or signing minutes of settlement.

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Settlement Proposal Durability Test

Tests whether proposed terms are clear, financeable, enforceable and workable in ordinary life.

Use it when: before saying yes to a package proposal or signing settlement terms.

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Built from a boutique practice perspective Why these worksheets ask different questions Open the practice notes and concrete examples behind each tool.

A form should do more than collect facts. These notes explain the hidden issue each worksheet is intended to surface, using concrete examples rather than a generic list of legal topics.

What this worksheet is designed to uncover
Family Mediation Preparation Workbook

Mediation time is expensive when it is spent discovering what the dispute is. We identify the decision, the interest beneath each position, the evidence needed and at least two workable options so the session can be used to negotiate rather than inventory confusion.

For example: “I must keep the house” may mean “the children need school stability” or “I cannot absorb a move this year.” Once the interest is named, options can include a delayed sale, temporary possession, a refinance deadline or another nearby home—not only an immediate buyout fight.

What this worksheet is designed to uncover
Mediation Disclosure Readiness Gate

Compromise is not informed if the number being divided is still a guess. We distinguish missing records that can be managed with a condition from gaps serious enough to pause the financial negotiation, while allowing suitable parenting or process issues to keep moving.

For example: The home appraisal is current, but the pension statement is missing and the business valuation is 18 months old. The parties might mediate a parenting schedule now and set a disclosure timetable, while postponing a final property package until the financial picture is reliable.

What this worksheet is designed to uncover
Settlement Proposal Durability Test

A settlement should survive an ordinary bad week, not only make sense in the room where it was negotiated. We test dates, triggers, payment mechanics, default rules, tax assumptions and the human tasks required to make each clause work without another round of conflict.

For example: “Parents share extracurricular costs 50/50” leaves unanswered which activities qualify, whether advance consent is required, how reimbursement works and what happens above a spending cap. A durable term supplies the administration rules, not just the headline percentage.

Choose the process by the decision you need

Negotiation, mediation, arbitration and court are different tools. The right choice depends on whether the parties need help communicating, need a binding decision, face an urgent issue, have reliable disclosure, and can participate safely.

A process can also be staged: exchange disclosure first, mediate the issues capable of agreement, and save arbitration or court for what remains.

Mediation: the parties make the decisions

A mediator is a neutral facilitator — they do not impose an outcome. Mediation can address parenting, support, property and the terms of a separation agreement, either lawyer-assisted or with legal advice obtained between sessions.

A mediation summary is not necessarily a binding final agreement. Convert the result into properly drafted documents, supported by complete disclosure and reviewed through independent legal advice.

Arbitration: an agreed decision-maker decides

In arbitration, the parties agree to appoint a neutral arbitrator to decide defined issues. The arbitration agreement should identify jurisdiction, procedure, evidence, timelines, confidentiality, interim powers, reasons, costs and any appeal route available under the agreement and law.

Arbitration can offer scheduling flexibility and a decision-maker with family-law experience. It is still an adjudicative process and requires careful preparation and procedural fairness.

Med-arb combines settlement and decision stages

Mediation-arbitration begins with an effort to reach agreement and moves unresolved issues into arbitration. The parties should understand in advance whether the same professional will act in both roles and what information from mediation may be used later.

Clear transition rules and informed consent are important because confidential settlement discussions and adjudicative evidence serve different purposes.

How we help

Mediation informed by courtroom and arbitration experience

Heather Fraese became a certified mediator after representing hundreds of clients in mediation, including clients with complex property and support issues. Brandi Aymont brings more than 20 years of experience in mediation, arbitration and both levels of Alberta trial court. That range helps clients assess when a negotiated option is workable and when firmer procedural steps are needed.

Good preparation starts with interests rather than fixed positions: the stability or financial security you hope to preserve, the concerns creating uncertainty, and the documents needed to test possible solutions. That gives the session more substance than arriving with a single demand and incomplete disclosure.

Disclosure comes before informed settlement

Financial mediation cannot reliably resolve support or property issues without adequate disclosure. Exchange and organize the tax records, income information, corporate documents, property values, pensions and debts before final terms are accepted.

If disclosure is incomplete, say so in the process agreement: state what must be produced and how disclosure disputes will be resolved.

Safety and suitability screening

Family violence, coercive control, fear, mental-health concerns, substance use and severe power imbalance can affect whether a process is safe or fair. Screening may lead to separate sessions, support persons, counsel participation, procedural safeguards or a conclusion that mediation is not appropriate.

Urgent protection, preservation of property, child-safety or enforcement issues may require court intervention even where other issues are mediated.

Alberta’s 2026 resolution-focused court process

Alberta’s Family Justice Strategy and the Court of King’s Bench Family Focused Protocol emphasize early information, disclosure and appropriate dispute resolution. The province-wide King’s Bench protocol took effect in January 2026 and includes mandatory pre-court processes, exclusions and waiver mechanisms.

Check the current procedural requirements before filing. Participating in mediation or another process does not by itself extend a limitation period or replace a required court step.

Preparing for a productive session

  • define the issues and the decisions required
  • exchange complete financial and parenting information
  • identify urgent, safety or limitation concerns
  • prepare realistic proposals and the reasons supporting them
  • understand the legal range before negotiating
  • decide how any resolution will become a binding agreement or order
Sources used for this guide

Primary legal and court resources

Laws, court procedures and the application of legal tests can change. Obtain advice about the facts, deadlines and documents in your matter.

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